How should you act with your Cancer man once you realize that he wants you or wants to be with you? There are definitely some very effective ways if you intend on securing him for your future that you should follow. Continue reading for some really useful information regarding when a Cancer man wants you.
5 Tricks To Use When a Cancer Man Wants You
1. Always Look Amazing
It doesn’t matter if you’re going to a movie, dancing, or a sporting event, you should always look fabulous. Make sure your hair is neat and clean, wear light yet classy makeup, and your clothes should be classy/sexy.
Whether you are wearing jeans, shorts, or a dress, you should look your very best. He will come to rather expect this as one of the reasons he likely got into you was the fact that you were so physically appealing to his senses.
You can dress sexy but make sure that you’re not looking trashy. Even when you wear jeans and a t-shirt, they should look nice and complement each other. If you look like a hot mess, he will think you aren’t willing to put the effort in for him.
Show him how absolutely put together you are and are willing to make yourself look like a runway model in order for him to enjoy you. Not to say this is all he’s going for. He certainly wants you to be beautiful on the inside as well.
2. Connect With Him Emotionally
The Cancer man is emotionally driven as he’s a water sign. This means he flows and so he needs a woman who can understand where he is coming from and be able to empathize with him as he empathizes with so many.
Don’t be afraid to tell him how you feel about anything. I wouldn’t say nagging is a good idea but if you have some strong feelings about stuff then by all means let him know.
He wants you to be totally honest and open with him. Hiding things from him or telling him there is nothing wrong when clearly there is, will make him feel uncomfortable or make him feel you don’t trust him.
Naturally if he feels you cannot trust him then he may lose the comfort he was starting to feel with you and then he won’t trust you either. It can go both ways so be very careful with this sensitive soul.
3. Always Mind Your Manners
This guy is a traditional fellow. He wants a woman who looks classy and acts classy no matter who she is around. Say please, thank you, and know when to be graceful. He’ll appreciate it greatly.
He’s one that will open doors, pull out chairs for you, and be a gentleman. He will be more so if you are acting like a proper lady. He doesn’t mind you being a bit wild in the bedroom but anywhere else, he prefers a classic woman.
This will really hold true when he takes you to meet his friends and/or his family. He wants them to see you as someone that will be quite fitting for you and will fit in with their circle as well.
4. Don’t Be Dependent On Him
While the Cancer man wants a woman who will become his partner, wife, and mother to his future (or current) children; he doesn’t want you to NEED him on a financial level.
He’s one that will take care of you but you must be taking care of business as well as taking care of yourself at the same time. Basically he wants to see that you’re doing what you need to and not just waiting on him to give you handouts.
He doesn’t like gold digger type women. Stand on your own two feet, be independent, and show him that you can darned well take care of yourself without his help.
By doing this, he will admire you and will be inspired by you. He’ll fall harder for you knowing you don’t actually need him on this deep level. He wants to be needed in other ways.
He wants you to ask him for advice, his opinion, or his help with doing things that you can mostly do on your own but you require his assistance. He’ll appreciate this much more about you.
5. Give Him Trust
While I do agree that trust is something that should be built, Cancer man wants you to trust him with your life. You can start the process of growth by letting him in on your secrets or deepest desires.
Talk to him about what you want out of life, what you desire, and what you see yourself doing for the future. He’ll love it and he’ll want to do whatever he can to help you get there.
He will emotionally support you anytime you need it. He’s the type that will try to give you advice on how to make things better but he’ll also hold you when you just need a good shoulder to cry on.
Open up to this guy and let him share your woes or your excitement. This makes him feel wanted, needed, and desired. This also makes it easier for him to start opening up to you and building that bond you desire.
The more you start opening up and trusting him, the more he will show you reason that you can trust him. He will also begin trusting you and once that is strong, you two can survive just about anything that comes your way.
With the sensitive crab, you have to basically show him that you’re there for him you don’t need him to take care of you, and you know how to take care of business while having great trust for him.
Be classy; show your adoration and affection for him often. Be the woman he needs and let him know that you’ll always be there for him. When he feels totally comfortable with you then you can make it last.
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,