Cancer men are an interesting bunch. These guys love having connections and being in relationships. Love is a very big part of how they want to express themselves in the world.
They can often stay in very sticky and toxic relationships because they are so afraid of ending things with someone. Cancer men hate being on their own. So breakups are very difficult for them to go through.
However, what pushes a Cancer man to break up with someone? What are the signs a Cancer man wants to break up? These are just some of the questions you might be asking yourself if you are dating a Cancer man and feel a level of uncertainty about him at the moment.
You might notice him acting a little strangely around you. And all signs might be indicating that he no longer wants to be with you. Or, has your Cancer man broken up with you and are you wondering will a Cancer man come back after a breakup?
We’ll be exploring all of these very difficult questions in this article. As usual, I am here to give you good guidance about what you need to know about Cancer men after a breakup.
When A Cancer Man Breaks Up With You
If a Cancer man is planning on ending things with his partner; he may become distant, quiet, he may spend more time away, or he may have excuses as to why he cannot stick around.
He isn’t good at breaking up as he feels things so deeply. Even though he knows it may be the right thing to do; he doesn’t want to hurt anyone. This makes him procrastinate actually going through with it.
It’s also very likely that if you try to approach him or ask him what is wrong; he may not want to answer you. He feels if he tells the truth; it’ll hurt you and so he’d rather just keep blowing the matter off.
In some way; he perhaps hopes things will miraculously change so that he won’t have to actually go through with a breakup. In some cases; he may be so entirely distant that he’s hoping that his partner will be the one to break it off.
A cancer man never wants to appear as a bad guy and sometimes it’s easier to just be really distant so that his partner decides enough is enough. If she calls it off then he’s not the bad guy and his heart won’t break by breaking hers.
I know it sounds kind of twisted but this is how totally emotionally tied a Cancer man is. Avoiding hurting anyone is his goal. Even if he lies or cheats; he won’t want to hurt whoever is involved. It’s guilt for selfish reasons.
If You Broke Up With A Cancer Man
If you decide that the Cancer man isn’t for you; you may think about calling it quits. He will likely sense this and start to sulk, pout, or pull back into his crabby shell.
Depending on how close he was to you; he may emotionally try to lash out or he may try to beg you to stay. Either way; you’re not going to feel good about breaking a Cancer man’s heart.
Of course, if he hasn’t been particularly good to you; then it may be a bit easier. Naturally, if he’s betrayed your trust by cheating or something else equal to you; you’ll probably have no trouble at all telling him you’re done.
When you sit him down to talk to him about this if he’s a good guy that it just didn’t work with; he’ll most definitely look like a sad puppy dog. It’s very difficult but try to remember the reasons you want out.
Perhaps if you can do it quickly and not give him too much time to ponder or respond; you can get out of there without too much drama. They can be drama queens in emotional situations such as these.
He may try to cry, plead, beg, or make you feel bad for having broken him. Put your shield up and do what you need to do. Don’t let the manipulation work and keep you where you know you don’t want to be.
Why Did My Cancer Man Leave Me?
Since he feels things deeply; if he ever senses dishonesty; he will not want to keep it going. If you lie, keep things from him, or aren’t upfront with how you feel; he may second guess why he’s with you.
If you betray him by talking to another guy romantically, cheat on him physically, or even give another ma your attention; he’ll be done. A cancer man needs security in his relationship.
When he can sense that there isn’t any security or that it has been breached; he’ll be done with the relationship/marriage. It’s incredibly difficult to get a Cancer man to ever trust once a betrayal has occurred.
Once he goes into his shell; he tends to want to stay there until someone else comes along that gives him the security he seeks. It may take him a good long while to heal from his wounds.
Then again; he may move on very quickly if the right person should emerge at the right time. Getting back together with a Cancer man is a very difficult task to take on if you broke it off but didn’t mean it.
Trust has been broken therefore his security was thwarted and he may or may not ever get over that. I’m not saying it’s impossible but it would be very difficult. He may seem as though he’s alright but in reality; he will carry that scar.
Cancer man doesn’t survive anyone who is critical or mean toward him either. He’s a very sensitive guy with a big heart. When someone is mean to him or constantly critiques him; he’ll not stay with that person.
He struggles with his own inner self enough as it is. The last thing he wants is a partner who cannot stop picking on him or giving him grief. Also, a woman that doesn’t get along with his family may be a deal breaker as well.
Does A Cancer Man Move On Quickly
A Cancer man is one of the slowest moving men when it comes to his relationships. He does not rush into anything and this is because he is very protective of himself and his feelings.
When he breaks up with a woman the likelihood of him being rather broken is very high. He will definitely take his time mourning the loss of the breakup as he is a man who gets so attached to the woman he is in a relationship with.
There should be a very long mourning process he goes through to help him deal with his emotions. The Cancer man does not move on very quickly, he takes his time to detach himself and let go. He holds the relationship sacred in his heart and this really influences the way he says goodbye.
He is the last guy who would ever just hook up with as many people as he possibly can after a breakup. It really isn’t his style and frankly, he knows that this isn’t the way to deal with losing someone he cares for.
What To Do to Get A Cancer Man To Come Back
As I mentioned; it may be very hard to get a Cancer man back. If the trust was broken; he’ll have a very difficult time ever trusting you again. He can but it will take some proving from you that you can be trusted.
He may also bring it up every single time you argue which can get old for you. It will take a great deal of time, patience, and love. Do everything you can to show him how much you love him.
Words are good but taking action to prove to him how you feel will allow him to actually FEEL it. Take care of him, be affectionate, and do whatever you can to show the Cancer man you care.
Cancer Man Breakup – Final Thoughts
There are many reasons why a Cancer man breaks up with a woman, but it is usually quite a difficult experience for him. He much prefers being in a relationship with someone he loves, to being single and on his own.
Dishonesty is the biggest reason why a Cancer man will usually break up with a woman. If he feels like he can’t trust her and that she is cheating on him or not being very forthright with him, then his intuition will tell him it is time for him to leave.
He feels things so deeply, so it isn’t a very easy experience for him to go through. It breaks his heart to break a connection with someone he once loved so much. This is why there is always a great deal of hope to get back with a Cancer man once you have broken up.
This is because he will always harbour intense feelings for you and won’t ever forget the connection the two of you once shared. That is, only if the two of you can sort out the problems you have within the relationship by learning to compromise and communicate better. That is the only way.
A Cancer man will definitely miss you when you are gone, you don’t have to worry about that. He is extremely sentimental and gets very attached to the women he goes into a relationship with.
He’ll miss you every day you are gone. It would just save you a lot of heartbreak to not expect any major declarations of love once he is gone. This just isn’t his style.
When a Cancer man misses you he may make subtle suggestions that he is thinking about you, but he will often depend on you to reach out so that the two of you can connect once again.
Space is a really good thing to give a Cancer man because this is exactly what he needs to remember how special you are and this might make him regret leaving you! He needs to realize what he is missing out on.
There is nothing more wonderful than being with a Cancer man…
He is so sweet, kind, caring, supportive, and gentle…
A true gentleman and the type of man you only thought you could make up in your dreams.
A Cancer man really knows how to love you and take care of you as no other man can.
However, things with your Cancer man have been feeling a little off recently.
You can’t put your finger on it, but it seems like he is slowly losing interest in you and the relationship.
This is incredibly heartbreaking as you love your Cancer man very much.
He is everything you have ever wanted in a man.
The thing is, you thought he was happy with you as well.
But you can feel your Cancer man backing away slowly.
All you want is to know that your Cancer man misses you and still cares about you.
There are times where he just ignores you and doesn’t get back to your texts.
It hurts you so much when your Cancer man doesn’t respond to what you have to say.
You never thought your relationship was going to end up like this.
And it feels like there is nothing you can do to make him come back to you.
What would you say if you knew that you could turn things around quite easily?
Would it make you happy to know that you can get your relationship back to where it once was?
There is a lot you can still do to fix and rebuild your relationship.
This is not the end of the road.
This is actually just the beginning.
Don’t give up hope because there is so much love between the two of you and all relationships have their ups and their downs.
It is just about you taking control of the situation and realizing that there is still hope.
You deserve to be in a relationship where you get treated like a queen!
This is your chance to turn it all around.
I wish you so much love and happiness.
Your friend and relationship Astrologer,