There is something really special and quite unique about the Cancer man. He doesn’t quite fit the stereotype of the normal mucho man. He is way more than that and probably a lot more sensitive and compassionate than most men you meet.
This makes him unthinkably attractive in any woman’s book. It is so nice to be met with a man who can really connect to your soul and understands the importance of paying attention to emotions and feelings.
Not many men are like this, so it can be like a breath of fresh air to meet a man as special as Cancer. He is always going out of his way to make you happy and comfortable, and perhaps you would like to do the same for him.
Is it possible to make a Cancer man happy when he is always going all out, and doing special things for you? What does a Cancer man like? And what is it a Cancer man wants to hear? Here is a list of things you can do and say to a Cancer man that will make him extremely happy.
Tell a Cancer Man What He Wants To Hear
The Cancer man prides himself on how nurturing he is to everyone he knows and loves. When he’s involved with someone, he wants to hear things from that partner that shows their appreciation and gratitude for him.
He will go above and beyond to make sure his partner knows how much he cares and how much he will do to maintain a wonderful life for them. He requires a partner that will be the very same with him.
Though he seems as though he’s confident and is excellent at advising others about love, life, finances, etc… he actually does need to be pat on the back from time to time.
One of the most important thing that a Cancer man wants to hear from his partner is “I need you”. He wants to feel as though his partner is capable of doing what she needs to do but needs him in her life.
He doesn’t want a woman to be needy but rather that she needs him to be in her existence and love her. He isn’t one for gold digging women who don’t want to work for a living or make their own way.
In fact he appreciates independence in a woman. However, he wants to feel useful as her partner in her life. He wants to feel as though she appreciates all the things he does for her.
He will do things like make sure her car is serviced when it’s needed, pick up her favorite meal on the way to her place, take her out shopping when she needs to pick out a new outfit, etc.
He’s a terrific partner that wants to treat his woman as though she’s his everything. In return, he wants her to let him know verbally that he’s amazing, he’s doing the right things, and that she needs him in her world.
Cancer Man Seeks Desire And Passion
Cancer man is typically very sexual. He ties his spirituality with his intertwining with a partner. He wants to connect at a soul level and the best way to do this is through sex.
This means that he wants a partner who understands this, feels the same way, and wants to connect with him as often as possible. With that knowledge, what he wants to hear from his partner in regards to this is “I want you”.
You can also make variances on the statement such as “I desire you”, “I need your sensuality” or “you really turn me on”. These types of things make him feel really desired and needed both.
This is actually one of the ways you can appeal to multiple facets of his requirements from a partner. You’re making sure he knows that you are still very attracted to him, you want to bond with him, and that you need him.
Letting him know you yearn for him is an excellent idea and he won’t tell you that he needs this but now you know. It’s something he craves and will make him feel important in your world.
Cancer Man Wants To Feel Appreciated
I mentioned the need for Cancer man to feel needed and wanted. He also wants to feel useful and that his partner appreciates him for all he does for her. This is where you would say something that appeals to this side of him.
Saying something like “Thank you for doing all you do for me, I really appreciate it” or “I do not take you for granted” are statements that make a huge impact on the Cancer man and his desire to please you.
The more he feels you appreciate him, the more he’ll do for you. He wants to keep you happy because you make him happy. Telling him “I’m yours” helps too. It provides him with a sense of security thus making him confident.
No matter what he does for you, always make sure you give him gratitude. It’s not because you have to but it’s because you love him and you want him to feel useful in your life with his love.
He won’t ever actually expect you to thank him but trust me; he wants you to do it. It boosts his energy levels and makes him feel like everything he is doing is for a purpose and helps him secure a bond with you.
Compliment Your Cancer Man
The Cancer man really loves getting affection and attention. Complimenting him on anything he does, says, wears, or takes action on will make him feel pretty darned good about himself.
Tell him he’s sexy, he turns you on, he dresses fabulously, or his hair is impeccable. Anything you can find that you can compliment will put you in his good graces and make him feel you really do care for him.
Telling him he’s doing a fantastic job at his work will make him feel he’s doing the right thing and all his efforts are not wasted. You may even tell him his technique in how he does things is extraordinary.
Really there isn’t much you cannot compliment him on. He will eat it right up and feel really good about who he is, where he’s going, and how much he loves you. If you don’t compliment him, other women will.
Believe me when I tell you, if you don’t compliment him, he will seek it elsewhere. If he does that long enough then he could form a bond with whomever is supplying him with his “fix”.
Cancer men have a tendency to fall to addiction if they aren’t careful. Sex is one of those addictions they could easily get into. Make sure your partner is loved, cared for, is getting ample attention, and sex.
How To Tell A Cancer Man You Love Him
One of the best ways to work your way into your Cancer man’s heart is by showing him with actions. He is one of those guys that shows his love through actions and displays, he doesn’t often vocalize it.
Without a doubt, a Cancer man’s love language is acts of service. He just loves being able to show his love to the person he cares about most. This is a language he understands quite well, and if you show him you love him, he is going to understand you without you having to say a word.
But if you really feel the need to vocalize it, then find the most romantic situation you possibly can to break the news. Don’t be surprised if he doesn’t seem shocked or taken aback, because you need to remember that Cancer men are very intuitive and he probably knows that you love him already.
He will be able to feel this in his soul. He isn’t the type of guy to mess around so there really is no harm in telling him that you love and care about him. He wants to hear this from you to appease his own anxieties about the feelings YOU have for him.
The best thing for you to do is just, to be honest, and vulnerable. A Cancer man responds really well to vulnerability and when a woman is okay with being feminine and showing her softer side. This is what he needs from you, so don’t wait too long to tell him how you really feel because he might be getting a bit worried.
Things A Cancer Man Wants To Hear – Final Thoughts
A Cancer man is a simple man and is happy with very little. At the end of the day he just wants a woman who can love him and who will be there for him supporting him no matter what.
When a Cancer man feels loved he can move mountains because it feels like all the cells in his body are coming alive. He wants to be with someone who can love and support him no matter what.
A deep connection with a woman he loves is at the top of his desires. Don’t be afraid to show your Cancer man the love he deserves. He needs this from you in order to thrive in his life.
The right way to know what he likes, how he thinks and what makes him tick – is to study his Love Language.
Thanks to my decade-long experience in consulting thousands of women across the globe with their Cancer love interest, I’ve compiled a powerful guide that can help you attract and keep your Cancer hooked for a long time.
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You may think that the Cancer man is the one who is in control.
But, girl, you have a lot more power than you give yourself credit for.
And you deserve to have the most amazing relationship with the man of your dreams.
It is about time that he treats you like a queen.
So get excited, because not all hope is lost.
And there is still a lot of time for you to turn this situation around.
You will never have to feel like you need to chase after him ever again.
Wishing you so much love and happiness
Your friend and relationship Astrologer