When you’re involved with a wonderfully loving Cancer man, you want to keep him happy. How can you do that? What do you need to do? Keep reading to learn more about what a Cancer man wants to hear from you to make him feel more alive and in love.
Tell Him This Often
The Cancer man prides himself on how nurturing he is to everyone he knows and loves. When he’s involved with someone, he wants to hear things from that partner that shows their appreciation and gratitude for him.
He will go above and beyond to make sure his partner knows how much he cares and how much he will do to maintain a wonderful life for them. He requires a partner that will be the very same with him.
Though he seems as though he’s confident and is excellent at advising others about love, life, finances, etc… he actually does need to be pat on the back from time to time.
One of the most important thing that a Cancer man wants to hear from his partner is “I need you”. He wants to feel as though his partner is capable of doing what she needs to do but needs him in her life.
He doesn’t want a woman to be needy but rather that she needs him to be in her existence and love her. He isn’t one for gold digging women who don’t want to work for a living or make their own way.
In fact he appreciates independence in a woman. However, he wants to feel useful as her partner in her life. He wants to feel as though she appreciates all the things he does for her.
He will do things like make sure her car is serviced when it’s needed, pick up her favorite meal on the way to her place, take her out shopping when she needs to pick out a new outfit, etc.
He’s a terrific partner that wants to treat his woman as though she’s his everything. In return, he wants her to let him know verbally that he’s amazing, he’s doing the right things, and that she needs him in her world.
Desire Runs Deep
Cancer man is typically very sexual. He ties his spirituality with his intertwining with a partner. He wants to connect at a soul level and the best way to do this is through sex.
This means that he wants a partner who understands this, feels the same way, and wants to connect with him as often as possible. With that knowledge, what he wants to hear from his partner in regards to this is “I want you”.
You can also make variances on the statement such as “I desire you”, “I need your sensuality” or “you really turn me on”. These types of things make him feel really desired and needed both.
This is actually one of the ways you can appeal to multiple facets of his requirements from a partner. You’re making sure he knows that you are still very attracted to him, you want to bond with him, and that you need him.
Letting him know you yearn for him is an excellent idea and he won’t tell you that he needs this but now you know. It’s something he craves and will make him feel important in your world.
I mentioned the need for Cancer man to feel needed and wanted. He also wants to feel useful and that his partner appreciates him for all he does for her. This is where you would say something that appeals to this side of him.
Saying something like “Thank you for doing all you do for me, I really appreciate it” or “I do not take you for granted” are statements that make a huge impact on the Cancer man and his desire to please you.
The more he feels you appreciate him, the more he’ll do for you. He wants to keep you happy because you make him happy. Telling him “I’m yours” helps too. It provides him with a sense of security thus making him confident.
No matter what he does for you, always make sure you give him gratitude. It’s not because you have to but it’s because you love him and you want him to feel useful in your life with his love.
He won’t ever actually expect you to thank him but trust me; he wants you to do it. It boosts his energy levels and makes him feel like everything he is doing is for a purpose and helps him secure a bond with you.
Compliments A Plenty
The Cancer man really loves getting affection and attention. Complimenting him on anything he does, says, wears, or takes action on will make him feel pretty darned good about himself.
Tell him he’s sexy, he turns you on, he dresses fabulously, or his hair is impeccable. Anything you can find that you can compliment will put you in his good graces and make him feel you really do care for him.
Telling him he’s doing a fantastic job at his work will make him feel he’s doing the right thing and all his efforts are not wasted. You may even tell him his technique in how he does things is extraordinary.
Really there isn’t much you cannot compliment him on. He will eat it right up and feel really good about who he is, where he’s going, and how much he loves you. If you don’t compliment him, other women will.
Believe me when I tell you, if you don’t compliment him, he will seek it elsewhere. If he does that long enough then he could form a bond with whomever is supplying him with his “fix”.
Cancer men have a tendency to fall to addiction if they aren’t careful. Sex is one of those addictions they could easily get into. Make sure your partner is loved, cared for, is getting ample attention, and sex.
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,