Are you a Pisces woman who has been tangling with a Cancer man and has decided to end it? Perhaps you’re still in love with him but feel he may be trying to end it with you? Keep reading for some really informational tips on the Cancer man and Pisces woman break up. Perhaps you might avoid it or let go easier.
What Led Cancer Man and Pisces Woman Together?
First you need to think back to why you and your Cancer man got together. What draws these two signs to want to be a couple? Lots of things! In fact, why would this couple want to break up?
I’m sure you have your reasons if you’re the one calling it quits. However, if you’re not then you might try your best to re-kindle things because this is a really great match. This couple scores a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10. That’s amazing!
You likely have a quite a bit in common. You’re both water signs to start with which makes you actually understand each other better than anyone else can. You are both emotionally equipped and you’re both empathetic.
As a Pisces woman, you understand the Cancer man’s desires, dreams, and goals just as he should understand yours. Both of you are passionate and should be pleasing each other in the bedroom.
While there may be some mild trust issues, you two for the most part are typically fantastic at building up solid trust over time. If you two are new and aren’t at the point of trust yet, you can still work on it!
Communication shouldn’t be that difficult between you two nor should intellectual subjects that allow you two to connect on a cerebral level. You just get each other for the most part.
Are you sure this relationship is worth calling quits? If it’s not something that you really want to let go of then you really should try again. That only applies if he hasn’t sabotaged your love.
What Goes Wrong Between Cancer Man and Pisces Woman?
What may not work too well between you is the way you view life in general such as life values. You may see the world differently in that respect which makes you have differing moral codes or standards.
This could be very problematic if you two don’t really discuss things. Cancer man is an eternal flirt and even when he’s not purposefully doing so, he is very nice and women misconstrue him to believe that he IS flirting when he’s not.
He’s a super nice guy and some women swear he’s hitting on them when it’s likely he isn’t at all. He doesn’t want to be rude to them or treat them badly so he tries to be as gentle as possible which doesn’t always go well.
Naturally if you see his behavior as being unacceptable then this would be a reason you might want to walk away. Another reason would be if he’s unhappy with the relationship and has begun stepping out.
In that case who could blame you for wanting to walk away? Do what you need to do to keep your sanity sweetheart. Truly being cheated on suits no one and Cancer men have every capability to do such things.
Just be sure that he is in fact doing it and you’re not just assuming he is without any actual proof. You should always trust your gut though. If your gut is pulling and telling you he’s doing something underhanded, try to get it out of him.
You can certainly tell if he’s lying or not. Look at his eye movements when he talks to you. Is he staring you in the eye or is he looking away? Looking away can mean dishonesty or uncomfortable answers.
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What Will It Be Like Breaking Up?
Cancer men don’t like initiating breakups. They tend to shy away from it because they don’t want to hurt anyone and they don’t want to be the “bad guy” between the two of you. This makes him procrastinate in the process.
He may actually move on which could mean talking to another woman. It’s not always the case but sometimes it is. If you’re the one doing the breaking up, you’re going to have to just be very direct.
Pisces isn’t that great with breakups either. They are very sensitive and have a hard time telling someone it’s not working. Some Pisces women will just move on with someone else and leave the other person in the dust.
Try not to do that. Just be honest and tell your Cancer guy what isn’t working between you. Either you two can work on it and try to fix it or you two can agree that it’s best to part ways without either of you being the “bad guy”.
You are both emotional people so no matter how you slice it, there is no easy way to break it off but if you decide it’s absolutely necessary then you’ve got to bite the bullet and do it.
Don’t beat around the bush and don’t move on with someone else. If it’s not working with Cancer man, end it and THEN meet someone else. Otherwise you risk carrying baggage over to a new relationship.
Now, if you suspect he’s going to break up with you, cut him off at the pass and tell him you’d like to sit down and discuss your relationship and if there is a way to save it.
That way if he was considering it, maybe he’ll re-think things if he knows that you see that there are problems and would like to work on it. Cancer men would actually rather work on it rather than run away but only if their partner wants it also.
They won’t ask about it because they’re afraid to but if you tell them you’re aware and you’d like to talk about fixing it, they will likely be willing to give it a try. If not, you may have to let him go.
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Wishing you all the luck of the universe
If you’re ready to understand more about how compatible are Cancer man and Pisces woman, check out my brand new Cancer Man and Pisces Woman Love Compatibility Guide, and if you want to catch him and keep him click here to learn more about Cancer Man Secrets.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
Everything you said was true. We (Cancer male and i’m a female Pisces) were talking for 7 months, then trust issue’s arose. He started talking to someone else 2 months before we broke up. Pisces female
Hi Katlyn!
Eeks! I am sorry to hear things didn’t go well. Yes, Cancer man seems to move very quickly. They cannot stand to be single. They want things to be fresh and exciting. When it gets complicated, they tend to want to run away. Again, I am sorry trust issues arose and he did this. My heart goes out to you sweetheart.
Hi I am a cancer man this Is the second week since my break up with my pisces girlfriend but yet still I still think about her and it keeps repeating in my head she said i break her heart
Hi Sweetheart!
I’m so sorry things didn’t go well with your Pisces lady. If she said you broke her heart then that may actually be true. The two of you are water signs which means you do have the capability of healing it and letting water go under the bridge. That really depends on if you want to try again or not. If you do then let her know it! Hope that helps! Wishing you all the very best.
It’s been 6 weeks since my cancer ex boyfriend broke up with me. He told me that he didn’t want to share his time anymore. I should have know because he had been so distant that last month but I wanted to push though and resolve it with him. A week before he broke up with me he asked if we were to break up if we’d still be friends and then he asked if we’d still be friends when breaking up with me. We haven’t talked since but I would still like to be friends with him.
Hi Anonymous!
Yikes so he was showing you by not spending time with you by being “too busy”. Yes, that’s a tactic they use because they think it’s less “mean” than telling you how they really feel. I am so sorry that this happened to you sweetheart. He wants to be friends because it makes him the good guy that cared enough to offer friendship with him. That’s entirely up to you but don’t think he’ll come back relationship wise just because your friends because Cancer men tend to have many female friends. Watch out for yourself sweetheart!
Hi, I’m a Pisces woman and he’s cancer.
He cheated on me 3 years ago and I have tried so hard to move on from it with him but he then has constantly messaged other females when we go through a difficult time. He said he wanted to work at us but seems to blame me for his mental straying.
I tell him I have insecurities and what they are and he becomes angry saying I should trust him. He has jumped on a plane without telling me until he’s in another country, where he then jumped on tinder ?
He literally blames me for his weird approach to difficulties in our relationship. Don’t get me wrong, we have some crazy connection but I’ve been trying to break up with him for around 2 years but he won’t let me go ?. I’ve been direct!!
It’s nearly 7 years we’ve been together and as much as we have a connection, I know we can both do better in life than this toxicity….
Help!
Hi Piscean!
Cheating is a very hard thing to let go of. I totally understand why you’re having a hard time. The trust was broken and sometimes you cannot ever get that trust established again. It sounds like he enjoys other women’s attention too much and not something he will ever change. I know you love his connection but he cannot have his cake and eat it too unless you allow him to. Put your foot down and tell him no more of what he is doing. If you leave, you have to stay gone… no contact. He only plays on your feelings to get you back because HE CAN. I hope you understand what I mean. I do wish you all the very best sweetheart!
My cancer man shut me off when i told him that i was unhappy that he lost my game account that i build for years. He login without my permission. Now he is total silent for almost 2days. Been together for 8mths and planning to get married in another 2months. No unfaithful case here. Long distance rship sucks. But we are on facetime 24/7. Now he is gone. He switch his fone off for good 2 days. What should i do? Im a pisces woman.
Hi Ur lady pisces!
Basically what he’s doing is pouting for you scolding him. He needs to fess up for what he did and apologize. If he won’t do that then he’s letting his pride control him. I’d message him and ask him why he’s not talking to you. Tell him that you miss him. If he responds then you’ll know but if he doesn’t then leave him alone for awhile. If he really wants to be with you, he’ll be back after he’s done sulking. I wish you the luck of the stars!
Hi, I am a piscean who is madly stuck with Cancer man. We hold this relationship since 10yrs and it is still strong but long distance. I know he has wierd mood swings and I usually have to handling them gracefully with all the love. And it’s always me who has to make the move by text or call even when I wasn’t really wrong. He does apologize later for his acts. But this time it’s been 3days he’s literally ghosted me. Isn’t picking up my call, sees my texts but still isn’t replying much until I messaged I’m done with you treating me this silent way. He replied, but it said, “Okay, take care”. This is really hurting me very hard. I’m still in shock and it’s pinching my heart so hard to see that he isn’t trying to stopping me at all.. :'(
Hi Jaypee!
Give him time to blow off steam sweetheart. Tell him you’re sorry for telling him that you’re done IF you want to try again with him. The thing is, if he isn’t concerned at all that you are feeling neglected or blown off then something is wrong anyway. The truth is that a man who really wants to be with you isn’t going to treat you that way. He’s going to find compromise and make sure that you stay in his life. Just go quiet and see what happens. Maybe he’ll calm down and actually miss you but if he comes back to do the same then maybe you should consider moving on. I wish you all the very best sweetheart!
Do cancer men cheat alot? And can a cancer man and Pisces women last there whole life without cheating on each other or breaking each other’s hearts to the point where they can’t get back together?
Hi Cara!
Well it’s hard to say sweetheart. Each Cancer man is different. Some have tendencies to cheat and some do not. Only by having his chart looked at can you find out if he does have the cheating tendencies or not. There is more to him than just his sun sign. Yes Cancer and Pisces women can make it work without breaking each other’s hearts but it will take lots of work and compromise from both. I wish you all the love your heart desires!
Mine was a serial cheater like paying for others while we had sex multiple times a day I never understood it
I’m a Pisces woman dealing with a serial cheater cancer man and I mean serial cheater he’s always been so loving and sweet I’ve literally been obsessed with him from our first hangout he had a high sex drive so did i we would have sex 2/3 times a day it was amazing. The best sexual partner ever we had a wonderful partnership and honestly of I never went looking I would’ve never knew I was getting cheated on he hid it very well until I walked in on him with his cousin still for some reason I kept going back kept going back no matter how crushed my heart felt every break up I just knew I was done and I just couldn’t stop going back even tho I wasn’t happy I just knew he had to be my soul mate I never understood why I wasn’t enough for him and in the past month I started really feeling bad about still dealing with him so he began to push me away and I tried to do the same thing but hours would pass and we would cry and he’d be right back he makes me feel like a psycho
I was talking to cancer man for a couple months. I hid the fact that I wasn’t a virgin to him and he opened up about everything on his side. We slept together and he found out i wasn’t virgin and he broke up with me. I love him very much and i call him every couple days to check on him and he picks up but he said he will never forget and forgive me because I wasn’t honest. Is there a chance for me if he isnt willing to try