Cancer men are some of the most special souls we have walking on this planet. These guys know a thing or two about emotions, and this makes them the ideal lover. They are attentive and nurturing, and care deeply for their loved ones. What more could you want?
These guys will go out of their way to protect the people they hold dear to them. But how do you keep him interested and increase the passion with these moody, yet affectionate men? Continue reading to get all the tips on how to nurture the passion with a Cancer man and keep him yours forever.
5 Ways To Nurture The Passion With Cancer Man
1. Be Deeply Appreciative Of Everything He Does For You
A Cancer man wouldn’t think twice about putting his partner before his own needs. It is so important for him to foster and build a deep emotional bond with the person he loves. He is a devoted lover who will treat you like family once you’re in his circle of trust.
Often all the good he does can go unnoticed because he gives and gives so effortlessly and it is easy to be neglectful of everything he does when it is something you may have become used to. This is easily fixed though.
Be sure to shower him with love and appreciation. Let him know how much it means to you and that you see everything he does for you. A Cancer man might be selfless, but he still has an ego and deserves some compliments.
Show him how much you care for him by going out of your way to do something special for him as often as you can. It can be a small gesture, but trust me, a little goes a long way when it comes to your Cancer guy.
2. Go Down Memory Lane By Reminiscing
You might have noticed this already, but your Cancer man is incredibly sentimental. This guy finds meaning in every little thing and attaches so many emotions to certain memories and objects.
He’s the kind of guy that’ll keep the movie tickets of the first date the two of you went on, or attach a song to a beautiful memory the two of you share. Memories are so important to him, and he holds them dearly to his heart.
One of the best ways to ignite the passion in your Cancer man is to go down memory lane with him. He loves to hear you retelling the story of a particular event the two of you shared together. He wants to know how you experienced the same memory.
An easy way to do this is to always have your cellphone handy and snap pics every time the two of you do something together. Get some of these special memories framed and exhibit them around your house because whenever he catches a glance of one of these photographs it’ll transport him back in time.
Reminiscing is one of your Cancer man’s favorite past times. So, whenever you have the chance, indulge him by going down memory lane. He’ll only want to get closer and closer to you because he’ll realize you find what you have shared together as special as he does already.
3. Be His Sanctuary Away From The Rest Of The World
Cancer men are extremely sensitive creatures. These men have very high emotional needs, but that doesn’t mean they open up their hearts to just anyone. It actually takes quite a while for these guys to feel safe enough to love someone, they want to be 100% sure.
Falling in love is a big risk for him, and he needs to know that the risk is going to be worth it because he doesn’t do particularly well with heartbreak. What he needs from you is to feel safe and secure in your presence.
A Cancer guy is looking for a woman who he can protect, but he needs to know that you are with him on this. He wants you to be the sanctuary he can depend on when life gets a little too crazy, the person he can look to for comfort in the moments he finds difficult.
They want to build a bond with their partner that feels even closer than family. The woman in his life needs to feel like his home and his ultimate security. He doesn’t do well with conflict and chaos because he wants stability from his love life.
If you can be the unmoving rock in his world then he will remain happy with you forever. When a Cancer man feels secure, his passion is unending and there is nothing he wouldn’t do in the name of love.
4. Give In To Your Imagination & Take Him On A Wild Ride
When your Cancer man feels completely safe and secure in his romance, his passion is unstoppable. He can become quite the wild animal, especially in the bedroom. A sexual connection is of utmost importance to your Cancer man to have a fulfilling relationship.
If you really want to take the connection and passion up a notch with your Cancer guy, then let your imagination do the talking. This guy loves fantasy and anything whimsical. You can really let your creative juices flow when you are in the bedroom with your guy.
Role playing is definitely something he enjoys. Get dressed up and pretend to be different characters. He might not show it, but your Cancer guy is actually quite dramatic and this is the perfect way for him to show this side of himself.
Set the scene and see how the night unfolds, but I can bet you you’ll see a different side of your Cancer man. The passion is bound to be palpable between the two of you. So, make sure that a bit of fantasy role playing becomes part of your sexual routine. Trust me, neither of you will be disappointed.
5. Tease Him Until He Can No Longer Take It
One thing that really gets your Cancer man’s blood pumping is being teased by the woman he cares for. He is quite into power play and the interesting dynamics that come with it. He is more on the submissive side, so he really enjoys it when his woman takes control in the bedroom.
You can do this in various different ways. Start off by sending him risky texts throughout the day, this will definitely get his heart racing and build a deep passion inside of him. This is quite effective to get him thinking about you all day.
You can also give him a striptease or take things to the next level by tying him up and asserting your dominance over him. Gauge what gets him going and take it from there. You might want to have a conversation about his boundaries first.
Participating in power dynamics in the bedroom can feel exhilarating and powerful, but you need to be sure that both of you are comfortable with this first. So be completely open and honest and ask him what his desires are.
It is important to talk about what you both want from your sex life and keep an open flow of communication with each other. This is the only way the two of you will know how to keep each other satisfied.
And trust me, your Cancer man is more than willing to do what he needs to keep you happy. He is a pleaser by nature, so tell him what you want because I can guarantee he’ll be quite willing to oblige.
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My Final Thoughts On How To Nurture The Passion With Your Cancer Man
The number one thing a Cancer man needs to feel like he can open his heart to be passionate about a woman is to feel safe and secure in her presence. This guy is sensitive, and needs to be with someone who understands that he isn’t like other men.
He needs a lot of love and affection from his woman. He definitely has his guard up at first because he is so scared of getting hurt, but if he knows how much you love and care about him then he’ll have his walls down in no time.
He wants to connect with you and get close to you, so be sure to show him your heart and don’t be afraid of being vulnerable with him. He wants to see that side of you and help you nurture the depths of your soul.
What do you like about Cancer men? And why do you find them so appealing? Please let me know in the comment section below. I’m so interested to hear about your experiences with them.
Wishing you all the love in the World.
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,