Perhaps you’ve recently been texting a Cancer guy, asking yourself: “Wait, does that mean he likes me? Am I reading too far into this?” So, today I wanted to touch on the signs a Cancer man likes you through text.
I’ve been able to consult many partnerships where I have learned about the Cancer man texting style. And I’ve found that there are solid patterns in the text messages that mean that a Cancer man likes you.
Cancer men are famously elusive, so it’s easy to parse out the behaviors that mean he’s getting closer to you. So, let’s look on how to know if a Cancer man likes you through texting in general.
5 Clear Signs A Cancer Man Likes You Through Text
1. When A Cancer Man Opens Up To You Emotionally
The Cancer man is represented by the crab, which should tell you a lot about them in general. They have huge defenses, represented by the hard shell and their snappy claws. They are soft-spoken, but when they’re threatened the situation can get nasty.
When Cancers do finally let their walls down, you’ll notice their texts become more emotional. They are naturally extremely emotional creatures. When the Cancer begins to open up, you’ll know it because of the storm of emotions that will begin to roll through.
Cancer will begin to speak in more emotional terms in their texts. You could get a lot of texts that begin with “I feel…” or “I remember when…” You’ll be able to pinpoint when the Cancer man opens up to you because the quality of their language will become deeper and more genuine with time.
2. They Shift Into Long Paragraphs
The Cancer man is often private at the beginning of the relationship. He struggles to open up initially, especially over text. He will hit you with a lot of short and snappy answers at first, perhaps making you wonder if he even likes you.
As your Cancer guy begins to get comfortable, you’ll notice a shift. He gets wordier and wordier. Eventually, you might even wonder if you’re talking to the same guy! He went from a man of few words to word vomiting all over you.
This is a sign that his guard is coming down and that he trusts you. He only gets freely expressive around those with who he’s truly at home with.
If the Cancer guy is talking that freely then you’re definitely a part of his inner circle.
3. When A Cancer Man Texts You Everyday
Cancer don’t have a ton of initiative. They tend to just go with the flow of life and wait for things to happen to them. He can find peace in the simplest things, so there is no need to strive and work hard if he’s cool and calm already.
If the Cancer is really crushing on you though, he may find himself working up some courage to message you every day. If you’re the kind of energy that the Cancer guy wants around, then he will do what is necessary to make sure that you know he’s interested.
Being so empathetic, he messages out of pure concern for the people he loves. It can be uncomfortable for him to sit with the hard emotions of others, but with his crush, he’s willing to take the hit to ensure that you are happier and more at peace.
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4. You Get The Daily Play-By-Play
Cancers are creatures of routine. They go in cycles and they enjoy having a new “cycle” to look forward to in the day. It’s hard to penetrate their routine, but once you’re in, you’re in.
Cancers really enjoy dissecting their day with someone. It is a way that they feel nourished and taken care of. Cancers live in the world of the past, recent or distant. Going over it with them in detail is a great way to make them feel heard.
When you get the text that says something like “Can you believe this” before he spills into all of the juicy details of his workday, you’ve definitely got the key to his heart!
Going over your day with someone is a very personal act. Think about it: would you text an acquaintance every night telling them what you did? Probably not. We reserve that privilege for our loved ones.
5. They Talk To You Just To Talk
Cancers have a very rich inner life that they don’t usually care if they leave. They do like other people, but with such creative minds, they’re able to retreat within themselves with relative ease. They’re naturally private people who only have a close inner circle.
When they’re casually talking to you with no real point to the conversation, then you can rest assured that the Cancer man really likes you. Since communicating often takes a lot of energy out of the Cancer, it should feel like a huge privilege!
Express enjoyment and humor in these conversations (and really play it up). This will let the Cancer know that you’re more than accepting of him reaching out to you. Plus, what is more, flattering than realizing that you’re someone that your guy just loves to have a conversation with?
6. They Check In On You
Cancer men are ruled by the nurturing Moon, meaning that they take care of those that they love. They are strong protectors on the one hand but also calming and nurturing. When you’re in their inner circle, you’ll be getting the sweetest texts asking how you’re doing CONSTANTLY.
The Cancer man often feels that they have to conserve their inner emotional batteries because they won’t always have them. This is why they often have a tight-knit group they bond with instead of a variety of friends that they check in with every so often.
Cancer men genuinely care about how you’re doing. He isn’t just asking because he’s nice. He really wants to know! And he’ll have a kind, thought-out, and emotionally intelligent response to almost anything you say.
Because he becomes so emotionally invested, he doesn’t give out comforting advice to just anyone. He will reserve this adorable side of him for those that he genuinely likes!
How To Text A Cancer Man
There are some things you have to know when texting a Cancer man that will drive him absolutely crazy about you. And who wouldn’t want this?
I have a secret I want to share that will give you great ideas on how to text your Cancer man.
There is nothing more exciting than knowing exactly what to say to your Cancer guy to get him to actually chase you because he can’t seem to get enough of you!
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How To Know If A Cancer Man Likes You Through Texting — Final Thoughts
Cancer men have such tell-tale signs that they like you over text that I am positive you’ll have no issue figuring it out. With this knowledge in mind, it’s going to be a lot easier to tell if he’s into you.
Now that you know the ways to tell if your Cancer crush likes you, I have techniques that get right to the core of who the Cancer really is…
Some certain actions and phrases will repel the Cancer man and make him clam up once more…
If you know what the core techniques are, you can open the heart of Cancer forever…
Three Biggest Mistakes Women Make When Texting A Cancer Man
Although your Cancer man might be showing signs he likes you through text, you could ruin it completely if you commit some of the 3 biggest mistakes when texting him.
I advise you to learn more about these before it’s too late!
Unfortunately, a lot of dating advice written for men in general just WON’T work with a Cancer.
They are wired a bit differently than men of other sun signs. And if you treat your Cancer man the same as other men, you might lose him forever.
There are so many dating coaches that tell you exactly what to do when you text your man… And what NOT to do.
Unfortunately, their advice can REALLY backfire with a Cancer man.
And there are three specific mistakes you NEVER want to make when texting a Cancer man.
I don’t want you to drive him away. Especially when it can be incredibly easy to capture his heart through text messages…
Don’t worry, I’ve got your back! When you know EXACTLY what to text a Cancer man… and what to NEVER text him… He will be putty in your hands. And he’ll make sure to reply to you quickly and lovingly.
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Wishing you all the luck in the Universe,
Anna Kovach
