It’s Taurus season! Cancer and Taurus are deeply compatible. They really get each other, and this means the Cancer man is feeling connected to himself this month. He is full of optimism, serenity, emotional intelligence and inner intuitive guidance. His light is switched on and he is generally feeling balanced and relaxed in his being. This is a treat for the Cancer man, who can often feel out of sorts and slightly low. Here are the top five ways to attract him this month!
How To Attract A Cancer Man In May 2021
1. Be Thoughtful & Considerate
Cancer loves kindness and a caring, sincere attitude. The more caring you are, the more he will instantly consider you as soulmate potential. Cancer is turned off by loud and brash personalities, like fiery Aries or Sagittarius. This man needs someone sweet and nurturing, sensual, and emotionally supportive. So, this is the perfect month if you two are compatible.
Let your inner nurturer and caregiver shine by being attentive to his needs. A lack of consideration and thoughtfulness is not attractive at this time, although you can lighten up a bit towards the end of the month.
The Sun enters Gemini on the 20th, a time of high spirits and excitement. Feel free to display your caring qualities in an extroverted or self-expressive way during Gemini season. Optimism, vitality, creativity and a love of fun defines Gemini, therefore the 20th to the 31st is where masculinely extroverted personalities can score a chance with usually sensitive Cancer.
2. Show Your Instincts
It’s really important that you show you have developed instincts. Cancer is deeply instinctual. He is ruled by the Moon, the planet of emotions, instincts, and the subconscious mind. So, he feels out people and situations as opposed to rationalizing or analyzing. Everyone is different, and the Cancer man is more in tune with his intuitive and “free flowing” right brain than his logical left one. It’s not that he’s not capable of analytical and rational thought, because he is – Cancer men can be extremely intelligent… It’s just that he relies more on feeling and instinctual responses than mind-based activities.
Let your powerful instincts slip through. You can be obvious if you want, as this guy will still perceive you as being subtle! As a water sign who is attracted to magnetism, you can be as bold and brilliant in your instinctive responses as you want. Prime examples: having ninja-like reactions, knowing what he’s about to say and saying it first, with a smile and “knowing” in your eyes, and intuiting things before they occur.
Some people misperceive psychic and clairvoyant gifts for mysticism or even pseudoscience, but these are an inherent part to the Cancer man’s reality. His world is entwined with intuitive abilities, subtle forces, and extrasensory spiritual perception and skills.
In the long-term, he can’t be with someone unintuitive or disconnected from their instincts. Letting him know you’re on his wavelength early on would be a wise move!
3. Project Serenity
The Cancer man’s psychic gifts are in tune this month. This is due to the Sun being in Taurus until the 20th. He, the Cancer man, is looking for someone with an aura of calmness and tranquility. Projecting a demeanor of serenity is a way to win his mind and potentially body and heart. Being too excitable won’t do it for him this May.
However, there is a difference between passion and giving into excitement. Passion can be still and be birthed from inner silence. You can portray immense passion through mental and psychological processes, emotional connection, spiritual alignment or physical strength. Excitement, or being overly excitable, implies a sense of “jumping around,” not being able to sit still or contain oneself. Maturely passionate and responsible people can sit still, and they can contain themselves.
Be serene with an aura of maturity and self-responsibly. Project the image of being secure and content within, a type of persona that says, ‘I don’t need you or anyone else for my happiness and excitement.’ This is basically maturity. But then expand on this and let passion shine through in a number of ways. Let him know you’re a deeply passionate and self-expressive person, through intellectual conversation, charm and charisma, a demeanor of independence and maturity, and emotional wisdom and openness. Hopefully this makes sense!
4. Shine Creatively
It’s all about creativity this month as well. There’s a powerful celestial transit: a Sagittarius Full Moon Lunar Eclipse, on the 26th. This symbolizes vision, creative empowerment, artistic abilities, and future thinking. Looking to the future for long-term vision and success.
Cancer is often mistaken for someone lacking ambition. Yet, the cancer man has powerful ambition – it’s just more subtle and behind the scenes than other signs.
The Lunar Eclipse in fiery and pragmatic Sagittarius will bring out this man’s idealistic characteristics. Depending on how adaptable he is feeling, and how open to you he is – how well you “click,” there is a chance for him to connect with his extroverted, enthusiastic and active self.
This is great if you’re looking for an upbeat and inspiring relationship. Of course, you’ll need to keep your wits about you and stay intuitive, but the general message of the month is that you can form a powerful bond from the Full Moon Lunar Eclipse.
If you want to score extra points as a fire or air sign, bring out his upbeat and charismatic side (latter half of the month only). Admiration and respect can be gained because he usually goes for more introverted and receptive, feminine, women. So, bringing forth a different side of him will be memorable!
Are you born of water or earth? Let him connect to the magical and powerful place he knows and loves: his magnetic and emotionally charged inner self. The self-empowerment he feels from you letting him be himself, and shine at his best, will create a strong bond for many Moons to come…
5. Lift Melancholic Tendencies
There is a tendency for the Cancer man to give into mild depression or melancholy. This is one of his worst traits, his “shadow personality” flaw. Depression is a result of low moods or mood swings, and the Cancer man can experience quite a few of these!
It’s important that you do everything in your power to raise his spirits. Lift him up. Be there for him psychologically, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
Showing him that you recognize and are aware of his sensitivity is a sure step to making him interested. “Sight” (as in intuitive and psychic sight) makes him see you as trustworthy. You don’t even need to do much, just recognizing aspects of his nature is enough to spark feelings of trust.
If you understand a Cancer man and are naturally compatible, you will realize how simple he is. Well, he is swimming with depth, he’s not simple in an unexciting or lacking character way. Simplicity here is referring to how easy it is to please him.
Once he’s interested, you don’t need to do much to keep him hooked. You just need to be yourself, share in his passions, and show him you care.
Read next: 7 Things to Talk to a Cancer Man About When You’re on a Date
Final Thoughts & Key Astrological Transits
Taurus season is a great time for intimacy and deep bonding. Stay positive but be mindful of his feminine (receptive and serene) nature. The latter half of the month is ideal for pushing his comfort zones, and letting his passionate side come out to play.
It doesn’t matter what sign you are; you can make a memorable impact if you find his strengths and connect to them. Take a look at the Cancer man secrets to sharpen your understanding of him too.
Do you have a Cancer man in mind that you’ll be using these tips and tricks on this May? Let me know in the comments below! I love reading stories from you all.
Wishing you light, love, and all the luck in the Universe on your journey!
Your friend and Relationship Astrologer,