How do Cancer men act when they like you? Is your sensitive Cancer man showing you the signs most women miss?
A relationship with a Cancer man has rewards beyond measure. But there’s a price to pay for his endless love, devotion, and sensitivity. The emotional rollercoaster and mixed signals are not for the faint of heart, but then, good things are worth the effort, aren’t they?
If we haven’t met, I’m Anna Kovach. As a relationship astrologer with over two decades of experience, I have learned to unlock the secrets of a Cancer man.
The sign of the crab can attract yet baffle. But if you know the body language when a Cancer man secretly likes you, you can further coax him from his shell.
1. Look for Body Language Signs a Cancer Man Likes You
Watch your Cancer man closely. If he’s secretly into you, he’ll show you through his body language. Some of the biggest giveaways include standing close to you, smiling, and making eye contact. But some of the secret signs are harder to notice.
You may assume a Cancer man’s body language will be relaxed and open when he likes you, but that’s not always the case. Cancers are highly emotional and sensitive. They are anxious around their crush and may physically try to “cover” themselves.
If a Cancer man holds his hands over his chest in a nondefensive way, or when he holds himself by wrapping his arms around his midsection, he may be hiding vulnerability symbolically.
He may also put his hands in his pockets or hold an item like a tablet, book, or bag over his heart, like a child does with a teddy bear, it’s as if he’s literally “hiding” his feelings.
2. He Seeks Your Validation
One of the signs a Cancer man likes you at work is when he seeks your input on projects and ideas. This is a key way a shy Cancer man shows you he cares and seeks your validation.
He may look to you for guidance even if he has seniority. A Cancer man who lets you take charge is showing he cares about you. Cancer men are insecure and need praise and encouragement. If he looks to you for guidance, he’s serious about you.
You can tell when a Cancer man has a secret crush when he lets you have the last word and take charge. He may ask you for your advice and opinion before making critical decisions.
3. He Checks In On You Randomly
When a Cancer man has a crush on you, he thinks about you constantly. He may worry about you and continually checks in on you. A Cancer man is known for being thoughtful and compassionate. He texts you throughout the week just to check in.
One of the signs a Cancer man likes you through text is when he contacts you with sweet and considerate compliments. He’ll ask about your day and inquire about how you are feeling. A Cancer man who secretly likes you makes it evident by acting like a protective parent.
4. He Looks Hurt When You’re Not Available
Every relationship needs boundaries. When you have to let your Cancer man down gently, pay close attention to his facial expression. A Cancer man who cares about you but may be hiding it signals he has feelings by pouting when you’re not available. No matter how much you want to spend every moment with him, try pulling back to see how he will respond.
One of the signs a Cancer man has feelings for you is when he looks crushed when you have plans. When you tell him you’re not available, you’ll see the pain in his eyes if he is really into you.
5. He Shows Jealousy Around Other Guys
What woman wouldn’t want a charming, intuitive Cancer man? Men born under this sign are adorable and charming. But each sign has its Achilles Heel, and for Cancer men, insecurity can run rampant when he actually likes you.
If a Cancer guy acts jealous when other men are around, you may think he’s being childish. But take heart, this is a sign he has a hidden crush. Cancer men only become possessive when they like you as more than a friend.
Love can bring out the best in a Cancer man, but his jealous instincts can put his Shadow side on display. Cancers won’t usually become aggressive when jealous. They are more likely to sulk and act hurt or insecure to get your attention.
6. He Asks About Your Childhood
How do you know a Cancer man is hiding his feelings? You may have heard the sign of the crab can’t suppress his emotions, but this is not always true. Sometimes, he tries to cover his sensitive feelings. But you can tell he likes you if he asks about your childhood.
When a Cancer man shows an interest in your family and past, he is emotionally connected to you. He can’t stifle his feelings forever and may reminisce to feel closer to you.
You might put a Cancer man at ease when you share your favorite youthful past times. But when he inquires spontaneously about your fondest memories, he’s interested in more than friendship.
7. He’s More Affectionate
How does a Cancer man act around people he likes? If a Cancer guy is into you, he can be more open about his affectionate nature. His secret crush signs show when he hugs you. Men born under this sign hug you longer and find reasons to hold your hand or touch your shoulder.
When a Cancer man is truly interested in you as more than a friend, he wants to have physical contact and seeks reassurance by touching you.
He may be inhibited and shy about his attraction, but he shows you he cares by making contact.
If you’re starting to notice these signs from your Cancer man, that’s a great sign… but now comes the tricky part—what do you say next?
Cancer men are deeply emotional, but they can also be guarded.
They won’t open up unless they feel emotionally safe and truly seen.
That’s why I created my program, Magic Phrases.
It’s filled with powerful (yet gentle) things to say that will instantly speak to his heart and make him feel that you’re the one he’s been searching for.
If you want to build emotional closeness and spark his desire to pursue you, this is your secret weapon.
With love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
