What really turns a Cancer man on sexually? Does he secretly want you, or is he just being nice? How can you make sure your Cancer man is obsessed with you and forgets everyone else?
Cancer men are sweet and affectionate, but they often stifle their sexual side. They can be so demure, their actions leave you wondering if maybe he isn’t really flirting… maybe he just wants to be friends.
Before you talk yourself out of a hot and steamy romance with a Cancer man who secretly craves your attention, learn his attraction signs. He might hide in his shell, but you’ve got a secret weapon to help you decipher his sexual cues.
In case we haven’t met, I’m Anna Kovach, a relationship astrologer with over twenty years of experience helping sensitive, passionate women like you find fulfilling and lasting love with their Cancer men.
And my experience has taught me a few secrets to discovering when a Cancer man wants you desperately…
1. His Embrace Lasts Longer
What are the physical signs a Cancer man is obsessed with you sexually? You can tell he has a deeper desire for you when he hugs you. Rather than a friendly squeeze lasting only a moment, a Cancer man who secretly wants you will hold you in a long embrace.
He clings to you like his sign’s symbol, the crab. When a Cancer man embraces you and won’t let go, he’s showing you he truly cares.
He may have more than a friendly crush when he waits before breaking contact.
2. He Starts Working Out
Cancer men are highly emotional, and as such, they often feed their feelings with decadent foods. This sensitive sign is prone to weight gain when he’s dealing with stress and emotional issues. But when he feels sexually attracted to someone, a Cancer man becomes image conscious.
Despite being a homebody, he starts hitting the gym, walking more, and lifting weights. He goes to these lengths to get into better shape to try to impress you.
Always a planner, your Cancer love interest is actually prepping for the day- or night- when he gets to seduce you. And this means getting into shape.
3. He Takes an Interest in Your Physical Comforts
One of the most prevalent signs a Cancer man likes you as more than a friend is when he becomes obsessed with your physical comfort. He tends to your emotional needs and asks about your security.
He wants to ensure you are well-fed, rested, warm, and secure. He brings you food- often homemade treats- and gives you his jacket when it’s cold out. He’ll share his umbrella when it rains and ensure all your needs are met when he’s serious about you.
4. He Becomes Jealous
Not all of the signs a Cancer man has feelings for you are so pleasant. Men born under this sign can become insecure and their attraction has a dark side. When a Cancer man is deeply in love with you, he wants to have all your attention to himself.
This often translates into jealousy. When a Cancer man looks stung whenever you mention another man’s name, or when he becomes moody and emotional when you talk about male friends, he’s jealous. This is a sign he’s obsessed with you.
One of the biggest Cancer man turn-offs is when a woman downplays his feelings. His jealousy may seem petty, but his fears are overwhelming. His jealousy is a sign he’s serious about you.
5. He’s Affectionate- but it’s not all innocent
A Cancer man who wants you sexually will also likely be in love with you. Cancer’s aren’t likely to pursue flings- they want a deep emotional commitment. Men born under this sign are affectionate and caring, but don’t let him fool you.
Once a Cancer man really feels secure with you, he lets his guard down and shows you his kinky side. His fantasies and intense passion may surprise you, but all of this must wait. The first thing a Cancer man needs is to establish an emotional connection and his affectionate side helps him do this.
6. What is a Cancer Man’s Love Language? Cooking!
You can tell a Cancer man wants you physically and emotionally when he brings out the family recipes and makes you a full course meal. You can also encourage his seductive desires by preparing his favorite meals. Sharing food, nurturing others, and having a partner cook for him are all part of his path to seduction.
You can pave a path to his heart through his tastebuds. The thought and energy required to make his favorite meals makes him feel secure with you. He may see you as the woman of his dreams if you appreciate his culinary talents and reciprocate by sharing favorite foods.
7. He Finds Reasons to Make Contact
Cancer men are warm and sensitive. When a Cancer guy is sexually interested in you, he shows you by finding reasons to make physical contact. He touches your shoulder while talking or holds your hand. He may put a hand on your knee innocently.
When a Cancer man needs to have physical connection to feel secure, it’s a sign he’s obsessed with you. Men born under this sign can be magnetically attracted when in love. If he’s serious about you, he can’t keep his hands off you for long.
But Cancer men are not sexually aggressive. They are affectionate, but not intrusive. A Cancer man maintains a polite amount of distance while finding reasons to touch you during conversations or walks together.
Do these cues sounds familiar? If this is your Cancer man to a T or if you’ve still got questions, I would love to hear from you. Astrology contains many nuances. His confusing signs might be signs a Cancer man has feelings for you.
…And, in case you’re still not seeing these signs of your Cancer man being sexually attracted to you, i suggest you get your self a copy of my 27 Dirty Phrases That Turn Cancer Man On here.
Sending You Love,
Your Sister And Relationship Astrologer,
Anna Kovach
