Hello my dear, and welcome to the horoscope reading for your Cancer man for September. Schools are basically back in session right now, and the mentality is somewhat more focused, a little bit more organized, and perhaps the memories of summer are beginning to fade.
However, it’s a brand new season and a chance to do a little bit of a relationship reboot. In terms of those in the Southern Hemisphere, you’ve finished a long winter, you’re aching for spring to begin, and so you guys are also feeling in the mood for some inspiration.
So I want to inspire you this month about your relationship with a Cancer man because there’s so much to be gained. There’s a lot of exciting activity which leads to some romance, a more productive frame of mind, with an important acknowledgement of a need for flexibility and compassion.
We have lots of planetary changes this month, and in general, I’m feeling a very different energy. We’ve got Mercury now direct, we’ve got Mars changing signs early in the month, so there certainly is a different flavor to September.
There’s something subtle, sweet, and delicate about it, and we need to get going and analyze the potentials.
Here’s what the stars have in store for a Cancer Man this September…
New Moon in Virgo – 2nd of September
What this represents is a great time for opening up discussions. Communication should be a focus after the New Moon, especially if you both need to weigh up alternatives, seek new information, gather facts, or decide on a course of action.
It’s a great time for strategizing, but it’s also a good time for getting more clarity. Maybe you need to talk about what you expect from each other or the relationship, but this is often more to do with practical matters that you can put your finger on, it’s not so much about talking about things that are very emotional and require a lot of intuition.
So, it’s a proactive, busy time in your relationship. There is not always a lot of time to spend on each other, so it’s all about quality over quantity. Making those moments together count is essential, and that’s why good communication is tested.
Mars enters Cancer – 5th of September
This is a welcome sign for Cancer Man because it brings him energy and impetus. What’s positive is if you have any goals as a couple, he will be more assertive about achieving them.
However, this can also make him a little more difficult to get on with simply because he can be quite self-directed, focusing on things that may take his attention away from the relationship. His bossy side may come out now. You may welcome him stepping up to the plate, being decisive, and perhaps taking the lead in the relationship.
If you’re dating, he may be more assertive about the sexual side of the relationship, which is great, but you have to keep your boundaries up because sometimes he may just be a little bit pushy. It’s a very persuasive time for him now, so don’t always say yes if you’re not really feeling it. It’s okay to say, “Slow down a bit.”
Mercury enters Virgo – 10th of September
This is another good sign for improving communication and setting the agenda in your relationship, making some important decisions that will affect outcomes and generally smooth things over. You should try not to bicker, however, or get involved in lengthy debates.
This is all about getting to the point and being pretty straightforward and constructive. This also means it’s a very busy time with a lot of balls to juggle, and you want to be fairly rational in the relationship and quite self-sufficient.
It’s not a good time for either of you to overload each other with expectations or to expect too much quiet downtime and romance. You have to appreciate each other, enjoy the moments when they arise, but also appreciate that there are lots of competing priorities right now.
Sun enters Libra – 23rd of September
Now, this represents a positive time for family life, entertaining, hosting events around the home, and just generally being more focused on private matters. Sometimes it’s important to know how to draw boundaries between your respective careers, parents, and yourselves.
Successful relationships with a Cancer man right now depend on how you are able to focus on what’s most important for your relationship and give each other your full emotional attention.
While prior to this transit it’s been quite a hectic time and good for communication, now it’s time to focus on emotional matters. If you don’t know Cancer Man well, this is a time to really get to know him better. Tread carefully because it’s also a sensitive period for him.
Venus enters Scorpio – 24th of September
This is a really positive sign for those of you dating a Cancer man. Generally, it means more fun and more chances for affection, and he is generally in a relaxed, easygoing mood.
Now, along with Mars in Cancer, this does make him quite sexually excitable, and it also means that it’s easy to get his motor running. So, if you guys are married and feel the relationship has been lackluster, or maybe you are dating and eager to move things on a bit, this can be a time when relationships really start to get steamy, hot, and passionate.
Mercury enters Libra – 27th September
This transit has a lot to do with planning, and there are things that you need to kind of get on top of. It’s important to be organized and streamline your home life, and this means strong communication within your family unit as well. People should know what’s expected of them.
It’s very important in your relationship with a Cancer man, whether it’s new or old, that you create clarity on emotional matters. This is not a time when you should try and use innuendo or be vague. Sometimes the best way to get that clarity is through face-to-face communication.
It’s a time, if you’re in a long-distance relationship, where you really should be meeting him, his family, and seeing where he lives. If you’re not doing that in a long-distance relationship, there’s a problem.
Themes for a Cancer Man this September 2024…
This is really a busy month; it’s an exciting month. There are lots of things that should pique your interest, and generally, a Cancer man is motivated and high-energy.
However, you have to communicate clearly because he can be bossy and very persuasive, and he will tend to get his own way. The first part of the month may not provide much opportunity to advance the emotional or affectionate aspects of your relationship, but as the month goes on, it gets better and better for some love, kissing, and cuddling.
Magic Motto – “Good listening is compassionate, working on our goal together is commitment, actions are the life blood of our relationship.”
Magic Text – “Let’s get the basics right and we’ll open up the energy to set the bedroom alight with our passion.”
Do
The moon waxes from the 2nd to the 17th of the month and this fortnight is ideal for initiating projects, beginning brand new activities, being proactive and more risqué or audacious. After the 17th is the time for more caution, reflection and to take a slightly more measured approach.
This month is quite disjointed and there are many surprises that can lead to sudden changes in direction. It’s important for him to be flexible and ready to change tack at a moment’s notice.
He is in a mood to succeed, to take on challenges and to start new things in his life. He has the added motivation this month to take relationships forward, to show more affection and because of his added energy there’s extra time to spend on the important things in life as well as his work goals.
This month is particularly favorable for internet romance and long distance romance. There is something about the mystery, the sense of discovery and the spice of the exotic connected to hooking up with someone online whom he hasn’t ever seen in person that rather appeals to him
Avoid
Definitely not a good phase for international travel or very long journeys for business or pleasure. Dealing with in laws can be tricky and so keep your parents at arm’s length.
This isn’t the best phase for him doing brand new activities involving publishing, advertising or promotional activities. This can be a tricky time for discussions that involve making decisions that have a religious or philosophical aspect.
This isn’t the best time for social media marketing or internet dating. This doesn’t bode well for major new projects involving teaching or education. It’s a time for caution in journalism and blogging.
This period isn’t great for negotiation and reaching agreement in business or love. Short distance city breaks for business or pleasure are not favored.
September 2024 Horoscope for a Cancer Man (week by week)
Week 1: Which way is up?
Mercury in Leo is square Uranus, and Mars, which is still in Gemini, is square Neptune, meaning this is a bad time for any big decisions. This can also be a very confusing time in relationships. A Cancer man can be very anxious, preoccupied, and may withdraw into his shell. It is a time when sometimes the best thing to do is to have a little bit of space, or if you’re together, just be compassionate and very, very patient.
Don’t undertake any major spending together, and try to avoid any arguments about money. It really is too soon to know which way is up, so make time for information to arrive.
Week 2: Turn up the heat
Now, the Sun, which is in Virgo, is opposite Saturn in Pisces, and then goes on to square Jupiter. This is an ideal time to be thinking about your relationship’s future. It’s time to see the big picture and maybe just start contemplating or planning for something of mutual interest.
If you guys have been dating or online dating, now is the time to perhaps take that next step—spending a night with each other or getting to know each other’s family. It’s really important right now that the relationship moves through the gears.
In terms of being married, this is a time to take the relationship further, turn up the heat, find out what the real potential is, and understand how this relationship is not just going to be something for company and companionship, but something that’s going to take you both to where you want to be in terms of overall ambitions.
Week 3: Trust your instincts
Now, Mercury this week is triggering Saturn and Jupiter. The important thing right now is having an open mind. You and your Cancer man may not always agree, so sometimes it’s better not to have long conversations (I mentioned that before) when you’re not really gelling intellectually.
It’s time to find that safe space in the relationship—to know that you can chill, relax together, and enjoy each other’s company without always needing to chat. In relationships that are heavily based on communication, now is the time to start using your intuition. Trust your instincts in the relationship—don’t always seek verbal validation.
Week 4: Have you found what you are looking for?
Venus entering Scorpio square Pluto represents a very sexually stimulating time in relationships. This should be a period of passion, affection, and intensity in terms of your relationship.
If your relationship right now feels really pedestrian, and like nothing is really happening, ask yourself some key, soul-searching questions about how you really feel about your Cancer man and what on earth is holding you back.
Right now, it’s time to get those blockages out of the way. Be quite ruthless in working on anything that’s stopping you from having the sex life you deserve—even contemplating some changes, like introducing aphrodisiac foods, trying new fragrances or aromas or even locations.
It’s time to spice it up and truly awaken your passions. Find out what he is most looking for in terms of your sex life and what you are looking for, and how you can both make it work. Be fearless, be bold, and make this a time to bring passion alive.
Summary
Now, after a quiet start, this month really revs up and can be very revealing in terms of the destiny of your relationship and how much you truly are compatible.
Set the base with good communication, then move to non-verbal understanding and intuition, and then build up the passion, affection, and reawaken and really invigorate your sex life.
Make your Cancer man OBSESSED…
Have you ever fantasized about being that irresistible woman in Netflix shows…
The one the leading man just CAN’T stop thinking about?
The sexy, affectionate protagonist would do anything for this woman…
He will go to extremes to get her attention and make her happy.
Now, let’s say the star of this show is your Cancer man…
And you are the filler character who is secretly in love with this gorgeous man…
But is unable to get his attention.
Why is that?
Because you don’t have that “wow factor” that the irresistible girl he’s in love with has.
Well, it’s time to change the narrative.
I’ve created a list of actions, or as I prefer to call them…
Challenges…
This will instantly make him chase you, love you, and OBSESS over you.
He will experience intense feelings he has never felt for anyone else.
Feelings he can’t ignore or suppress because you will connect to his heart in ways he instinctively responds to…
Precisely how you’ve always hoped he would.
The Challenge will become your guide to getting to the heart and soul of your Cancer man…
And will take you to the heart of what makes him tick.
You’ll learn how to become the woman he finds UNFORGETTABLE.
The one who “got away”…
You’ll reignite his passion and capture his heart in ways he never imagined possible.
So much so that within just 30 days, you may completely transform your relationship…
Emotionally, physically, and spiritually!
Click here to learn more about The 30-Day Love Challenge with your Cancer man.
I promise you’ll love it.
Sending you much love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
