Hello my dear, and welcome to the horoscope reading for your Cancer man for October. The year is racing to a climax, and you’ll be pleased to know that the transits for this particular week offer the scope for some intensity, passion, emotional connectivity, and there’s also a bit of good luck and spontaneity.
In fact, it is a rather stimulating month on a number of levels, and that’s always good for relationships because it means there’s a variety of energies that you can tap into in order to remold the relationship.
What’s important as well, is understanding the power basis of the relationship, tapping into the subtext, the context, the hidden motives and agendas that you and your partner have, and working with those in order to get a better result.
So often, I feel people fail in relationships because they keep on a surface, verbal level without understanding what’s really behind the facade, what’s behind the words, and what lies beneath.
I feel this is a great time to uncover what lies beneath and then shift your overall perspective of the relationship to achieve relationship goals.
Here’s what the stars have in store for a Cancer man this October…
New Moon in Libra – 2nd of October
The New Moon in Libra is conjunct Mercury, indicating a rather excitable and restless time for Cancer Man. He is eager to plan, and there is a hunger inside of him that needs to be quenched.
However, there are a couple of elements to this. He enjoys family life, family discussions, and it’s probably a good idea to make some plans regarding your future, particularly in relation to how this will impact family life going forward.
It’s also a time where he needs to organize his thoughts, so sometimes it’s a good idea for him to spend a little bit of time alone, doing journal writing, perhaps even writing poetry, prose, or doing extra reading ie whatever he can do to find some new ideas, get inspiration, or gain perspective will be beneficial.
The key thing right now is that he wants to shore up the foundations of his life, and he may be questioning some recent directions. So, while it’s a questioning, restless phase, it’s also a good time for him to sort through information and find out where he stands.
Jupiter Retrograde – 9th of October in Gemini
This particular retrograde, along with the new moon in Libra, both carry a flavor of seeking understanding and enrichment. What’s important for him right now is meaning in life, and that theme runs through this entire month.
He’s more likely to withdraw from things that are frivolous or casual and that don’t create the necessary emotional attachment he’s looking for.
In terms of relationships, this is not a good time for taking a pause or a break, or for seeking more independence, as that can undermine the relationship.
Instead, you can really strengthen the relationship, but you have to do it in a subtle way—through showing compassion, empathy, support, and giving him the benefit of your wisdom. However, it’s important that you don’t crowd each other because sometimes he just needs to mull things over in his own time.
Mercury enters Scorpio – 14th of October
This particular placement is always interesting for romantic life with Cancer Man. The key thing here, if you are dating or in a new relationship, is that he’s quite demanding. He can almost be an energy vampire right now.
Another important aspect, also relevant to the New Moon in Libra, is that his needs are quite complex. What you cannot do in any relationship with him right now is take things for granted or be a little bit casual.
If he needs to talk about something, give him your full attention. If he feels a little bit emotional, try to be understanding. When you offer support, be a good listener, and provide him with interesting perspectives, ideas, or solutions—that really turns him on. Make sure you give him really good feedback right now, as this can create a window for romance.
The key to romance is first being open to discussions and being a little patient as he works through his emotions. If he really is beginning to like and trust you, this is a good time for him to open up, and you might really get to understand him.
Venus enters Sagittarius – 18th of October
This represents a positive time, particularly for those who have work interests with Cancer Man. It’s a good time to perhaps take a course or improve skills together. Encourage each other’s ambitions and work hard at developing talents together.
In relationships, we often think of romance as candlelit dinners, getaways, or concerts, but sometimes it can be very romantic to work on a project that enhances either your career or your personal growth. Think of something that’s really important to you both, commit to it, set aside time, schedule it, and go for it.
Then, you have this meaningful idea to tackle together, drawing you closer and allowing you to offer each other support. This will build strength in new and old relationships alike.
Sun enters Scorpio – 23rd of October
This is a good time for any date nights, celebrations, and adding a little excitement to your life. It’s the perfect time for being more active physically. Sometimes being outdoors, engaging in physical exercise, attending sporting events, or doing things that increase adrenaline levels can spark romance.
It may not be a good time to just sit at home, as this is a good time to get out among people and to be very goal-oriented together. Remember, Cancer is an ambitious guy, so make sure that you’re on board with his ambitions, encourage them, and it’s even better if they are ambitions you share.
Themes for a Cancer Man this October 2024…
The themes of this month are to intensify, solidify, and work on those relationship foundations by being supportive, encouraging, and understanding. You need to show a lot of affection and spend quality time together, but you also need to know when to step back and let him have time to think.
He needs to filter his emotions and work through some stuff. It’s also a great time for him to achieve closure, so patience may be needed while he works on any lingering issues.
Magic Motto: “Nurture the bond with patience and understanding, and the relationship will flourish with depth and meaning.”
Magic Text: “I’m going to be like your special edition champagne: celebratory, full of fizz and ready to take you away into our fantasies.’
Do
The moon waxes from the 2nd to the 17th of the month and this two-week period is perfect for new activities, dating, relationship goals and starting any new projects.
After the 17th, you have to capitalize on what you have now achieved, reflect and take a grounded, more than a dynamic response. This is a very good period for self-improvement goals and further education.
It may have be a good idea to go to events where both you and him get to find out new information, particularly regarding any dreams you guys have.
This is a good time for getting to work again on your very aspirational mutual goals. Regular international travel is favored, however going to a totally new foreign country for business or pleasure is not favored.
Publishing and promotional activities are successful.
Avoid
This isn’t a great waxing phase for money decisions or making investments. This is also not ideal for large, considered purchases or ploughing more money into his business.
In new relationships, it’s harder for him to be affectionate and intimate. It’s not an ideal waxing phase for brand new activities especially sporting. Competitive and daring ventures that need a great deal of courage are not favored. This isn’t the best period for a brand new diet or exercise routine.
October 2024 Horoscope for a Cancer Man (week by week)
Week 1: The sparkle
This is the week of the New Moon, of course, and we also have a grand trine in water between Venus, Mars, and Saturn. This is a particularly lucky and outgoing time for a Cancer man. It stimulates his creative juices and his ambition, which is why it’s important that relationships are full of communication, ideas, and a spark of interest.
This is an important time to have interesting discussions, to discuss both emotional and romantic matters, and to talk about your future. This shouldn’t be a time to bury yourself in your phone or distract yourself with the goings-on in the outside world. This is all about you and your adventure together in your relationship, so spend time talking about what matters to you both.
Week 2: Signal for Success
Sun in Libra is trine Jupiter in Gemini, and Mars (which is still in Cancer) is sextile Uranus in Taurus. This can be a time where he is a little more aware of what is missing from his life. He can feel slightly unfulfilled, and often in the short term, it’s necessary for you guys to brainstorm or create some renewed impetus in your relationship.
There is a sense that you’re on track, so the key right now is to ask: Where is the relationship at? Is it parked? Is it stuck in a dead end? You must identify if your relationship has stagnated or if you are growing apart, because one of the big themes now, is your ability to address stagnation by creating some more goals and making sure that the time you spend together counts, matters, and has value for you both.
Week 3: Fwb
With Venus in Scorpio opposite Uranus, this can be a time where those of you who are in a “friends with benefits” situation with a Cancer man may experience a little bit of distrust, some separation, or difficulty making things work. It may be a crossroads where you have to discover whether the relationship can become a full-blown relationship or if it’s not going anywhere.
It’s very important to understand whether the “friends with benefits” situation is leading somewhere or if it’s just a stopgap. This is also an important time for you to uncover whether you’re in a rebound relationship with a Cancer man, even if you’ve been dating for a while, understand if you are a transition relationship or not—that’s an important consideration.
Now is the time to add a bit of spontaneity into your affectionate life, finding new ways to enjoy foreplay and share romantic evenings. Don’t be boring; make sure the element of surprise is alive and well in your love life.
Week 4: Escape and Recreate
Venus is now in Sagittarius square Saturn in Pisces, Mars remains in Cancer and has an important sextile to Uranus and trine to Neptune. This can be a good time for escapism.
Very often, he’s hard at work, and that’s why your romantic life—even your fantasy life—needs to provide a hint of something special, a way to get away from the cares of the world.
To make romance special right now, it has to be escapist. This is a time when you’re not necessarily going to talk about practical issues and worries; you have to know how to draw a line under work and other issues so that the time you spend together is really satisfying and relaxing.
Summary
October is a really interesting month with a Cancer man. It’s not necessarily what you would expect, and that’s why you have to be cognizant of what’s going on in the relationship and alert to his cues. He can be a little restless and unpredictable, and I think for both of you, there’s a sense that the relationship often needs more clarity, more definition, and that there are some issues on which you need to make progress.
This is a great time to move the relationship forward, bring in a lot more romance, and create special moments as a couple. It’s also an important time for him to achieve some closure so that your relationship with him can move forward in a positive way.
Make your Cancer man OBSESSED…
Have you ever fantasized about being that irresistible woman in Netflix shows…
The one the leading man just CAN’T stop thinking about?
The sexy, affectionate protagonist would do anything for this woman…
He will go to extremes to get her attention and make her happy.
Now, let’s say the star of this show is your Cancer man…
And you are the filler character who is secretly in love with this gorgeous man…
But is unable to get his attention.
Why is that?
Because you don’t have that “wow factor” that the irresistible girl he’s in love with has.
Well, it’s time to change the narrative.
I’ve created a list of actions, or as I prefer to call them…
Challenges…
This will instantly make him chase you, love you, and OBSESS over you.
He will experience intense feelings he has never felt for anyone else.
Feelings he can’t ignore or suppress because you will connect to his heart in ways he instinctively responds to…
Precisely how you’ve always hoped he would.
You’ll reignite his passion and capture his heart in ways he never imagined possible.
So much so that within just 30 days, you may completely transform your relationship…
Emotionally, physically, and spiritually!
Go here to learn more about The 30-Day Love Challenge with your Cancer man.
I promise you’ll love it.
Sending you much love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
