Mind Hack That Makes a Cancer Text You First

If you’re interested in a Cancer man, there’s something you need to do right away. Early in the relationship, you’ve got to set the foundation for him to initiate contact. Regardless of social norms, this is not easy for a Cancer man to do.

Cancer men are likely to wait and let you initiate contact. They aren’t comfortable taking risks and making the first move. Even an assertive Cancer man may hold back unless he thinks he’s at risk of losing you…

But creating that fear may come with a greater risk of losing him first. Cancer men are very sensitive and don’t take well to any kind of manipulation. If you’re steering him, you’ve got to be incredibly subtle about it.

That’s why this psychological hack works, but only if you use it early on in your relationship.

If you’ve already sent him a dozen text messages initiating contact, it’s too late. You want to start early. As you’re getting to know each other.

Let him know you feel awkward about texting first, even when you really like someone. Make this a generic statement, but do pay attention to the specific choice of words.

You feel awkward (substitute: shy, anxious, nervous etc). The fact that you mention feelings will get his attention. A Cancer man never wants a woman to feel uncomfortable. Especially if you feel nervous or anxious. This will trigger his protective and nurturing instincts.

If a Cancer man feels like he’s helping to soothe your feelings and reassure you by texting you first, he’ll get over his shyness and do it. But again, this has to be established early in order to work.

If you’ve already been in contact with him, the best way to get him to text you first is to slow down. Wait a few days before texting. If he doesn’t initiate, make a passing comment about something that is triggering your feelings. Avoid jumping right into major crisis mode. Rather, focus on stress related to family, home, or finances in particular.

He’ll become inclined to show more of his nurturing instincts as a way to protect you and respond to your delicate feelings. He may take it upon himself to try to solve the problem and keep in touch as a way of letting you know he cares.

Now that you’ve gotten the deep dive view of his psyche, you’ll be better able to encourage a Cancer man to take the lead when it comes to texting. Of course, like anything else, there’s a time and place for any strategy. The more you learn about your Cancer man, the better.

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In most circumstances, these tricks work like a charm. He'll respond back and he will again seem more interested in the conversation.

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