Every month, the planets change signs and affect our relationships. Depending on the planetary movements, it may be tough to understand the needs and desires of the Cancer man. But with my tips based on the monthly energy, you can draw the attention of a Cancer man or improve your relationship with one in August 2020.
Attracting A Cancer Man In August 2020
1. Make Your Expectations Clear
As an emotional water sign, the Cancer man can often misinterpret your messages or muddle his own, but that doesn’t have to be the case in August 2020.
With the Sun no longer in his sign, the Cancer man is more focused on creating a sense of security and self-worth.
However, with the playful Sun in Leo highlighting his second house of values until August 22, the Cancer man is more vocal about what he wants and needs and whether or not he feels his partner (you) can fulfill this.
If you want to attract the Cancer man in August, you’ll need to have thick skin and be willing to be honest with him too.
During this period, make your expectations very clear.
If you are a Pisces, Libra, or Virgo, don’t beat around the bush about what you want. Be direct and bold. Let him know what turns you on and let him know what makes you feel safe and wanted.
If you are a Sagittarius, Leo, or Scorpio woman, you may need to tone things down a notch. Instead of coming on so assertively, show him more of your sensual side. Let him know that you can be confident and nurturing.
At the end of the month, when the Sun leaves fiery Leo and enters service-oriented Virgo, the Cancer man’s focus will shift from having a good time to being with someone he can trust.
During these four weeks, he is attracted to the woman he can learn from.
To make the most out of the Sun’s transits in Leo and Virgo in August 2020, be clear about your expectations. Show him how to love you and lead with an open heart.
It’s okay to make the first move.
2. Make a Fresh Start
Starting over can be challenging and intimidating, especially to the sensitive Cancer man. However, with Venus, the planet of love and romance, entering his sign on August 7, the Cancer man will have an opportunity to make a fresh start.
During this period, the Cancer man is more sensual and excited about love. As his potential or current partner, be receptive to his desire to start something new and invigorating.
However, as a relationship astrologer, I’ve found that any time a planet (especially Venus) is in one’s first house, the focus is on self-fulfillment rather than relationships. But this intense focus on self can work in your favor.
Instead of focusing on the past, live in the now, and be positive for the future.
If you are getting to know a Cancer man, this is the perfect time to show him that there is hope out there. This is your opportunity to show him it’s okay to start over and try again.
If you are already in a relationship with a Cancer man, use this transit to get reconnected.
After Venus’s extended three-month transit in his twelfth house of Gemini, you could use a break. Take advantage of this opportunity to hit reset.
3. Keep Things Light and Fun
On August 4, 2020, Mercury, the planet of communication and insight, will join the Sun in Leo, highlighting the Cancer man’s second house of values until August 19.
During this period, the Cancer man could be thinking seriously about his possessions and overall sense of worth.
However, if you want to keep his attention, you’ll need to keep things light and fun. Show him that you can bring a sense of value and meaning to his life. Otherwise, you may find that he’s somewhat detached and dismissive.
If this is the case, don’t chase him. Instead of feeding his ego or insecurities, ignore him. Remind him that you are worthy of his highest regard and self-respect. Do not settle for less.
Although this may seem double-sided, I’ve found that Cancer men do not respond well to isolation. As cardinal water signs, they often expect others to come to them. But if you want to keep the interest (and respect) of a Cancer man, you need to inspire him to work on stabilizing his emotions, and this means willingly coming out of his shell.
To do this, focus on keeping communication light and fun. Try to stay away from serious topics like money or commitment that would trigger a conflict or drama spell.
Read next: 7 Questions That Make a Cancer Man Fall in Love
4. Prioritize Intimacy
Intimacy and sex are very important subjects for the Cancer man, especially in August 2020.
On August 15, Uranus, the planet of innovation and technology, will station retrograde in the Cancer man’s eighth house of intimacy and pleasure.
During this period, the Cancer man is very attracted to the woman who is willing to be consistent and loyal in and out of the bedroom. He is turned off by anyone who does not live up to their word.
If you are a fixed sign like Scorpio, Aquarius, Taurus, or Aquarius, this transit may be challenging for you. However, if you are willing to listen and make intimacy a priority, I believe you will have no problems attracting a Cancer man.
For example, if the Cancer man expresses his desire for a woman that is nurturing and attentive, do your best to reciprocate his love and affection. Do not take more than you give.
For those looking for unique ways to attract and stimulate the Cancer man, I suggest anything that involves foreplay or sensual touching. He is very turned on by massage.
If you are in a long-distance relationship with a Cancer man, Uranus’s retrograde station may cause some problems with your communication channels. To avoid any delays or negative feedback, make sure your cars, telephones, computers, and other electronic devices are updated.
Overall, August 2020 is an excellent month to attract and build a healthy relationship with a Cancer man.
If you want to keep his attention, make your expectations clear, be open to a fresh start, keep things light, and make intimacy a priority. Don’t be afraid to take a leap of faith.
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Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
A cancer guy I’ve been seeing for a few months now.. told me he loves me many times when he was drunk opened up to me and told me he wants a future with me how amazing I am..
But when sober he took it all back ? I’m so confused do they tell you they love you if they don’t mean it even if they are drunk