Hello, sweethearts, it’s time to delve into the horoscope reading for your Cancer man for November, which gets off to a cracking good start with the New Moon…
As you know, the New Moon is the green light for decisions, brand-new activity, taking initiative, and being pioneering, so there’s no excuse to delay. As soon as the month begins, you can get the starter motor of passion and energy going and there’s impetus for your sex life, particularly as the New Moon is in Scorpio.
Now, the New Moon happens around a similar time that Mercury heads into Sagittarius, indicating a great time for humor to be used in relationships, particularly to diffuse tension and as a persuasive tool.
It’s also a time to be forgiving and to think big. Mars is also heading into Leo on the fifth, which adds to the fiery nature of all the planets, particularly as the Sun also heads into Sagittarius, as we know, at month-end.
Therefore, there is an inspiring collection of energies that will add enthusiasm and a little bit of fun into your life, but remember to be experimental and to use the energy of Mars in Leo to drive through with determination.
Here’s what the stars have in store for a Cancer Man this November…
New Moon Scorpio – 1st November
This is an ideal time for you guys to discuss long-term goals and to recommit to your future as a couple. It’s time for you both to take a step back and see the bigger picture, it’s very important that you don’t become bogged down in minutiae or bickering.
This is also a time in relationships where it may be good for you both to take a spontaneous trip away for a weekend, or even a week if you can afford it. It’s really important to bring a little bit of novelty and spontaneity into the relationship…
Don’t forget that none of us can survive without fun and excitement. Therefore, this is a good cue for you to surprise each other and to have conversations about adult things, rather than just having to discuss work, chores and family, and to start re-engaging with each other as two to individualistic people, rather than just doing mundane things as a couple.
An excellent New Moon for single Cancer men to experience new people for fun and love, but without the pressure of commitment.
Mercury enters Sagittarius – 3rd November
In terms of new relationships, humor and an open mind are really important, this is not a period to get incredibly intense or to take yourselves too seriously in a relationship. When he is becoming too dogmatic or taking offence too easily, things can really struggle to be harmonious, so the key is diffuse and amuse, don’t engage in drama.
It’s ideal in a new relationship to be socializing and going out a lot, often communication can get in the way of a relationship really getting off to a good start. Somehow the wrong things is seems to get said, so it’s much better if you can both focus your attention on exciting activities while providing each other with company rather than dominating each other’s time and space by being in quiet intimate areas with a lot of pressure or where emotional intelligence is required.
A Cancer man is more tense with this transit and so, this is an ideal time for you to reassess how well you’re really connecting, whether you are able to nurture each other and to truly work together as a couple, or whether you both just pay lip service to these things and you just go along to get along.
Good relationships where there is a lot of chemistry and a great deal of love, should be worked hard at to reinforce trust, quality communication and affection
Mars enters Leo – 5th November
This represents an excellent time to encourage him to go for goals! When it comes to business, it’s an awesome phase for him winning new clients or contracts, so it’s definitely a time for him to be extremely assertive and up his game. There are gains to be made financially if he is daring.
This is a time however, where it’s very important for him to be decisive and to focus, so encourage him to decide on a course of action and stick with it as this is definitely a time when he can flounder if he fails to really hone in on one specific goal.
He can be quite acquisitive at this time, and if you guys are so inclined, you can make unwise and impulsive purchases, so it’s really important to stick to budgets right now.
It’s also a time when you may clash over money issues, but usually there’s a control issue lingering deeper underneath, so watch out for locking horns over money and understand the deeper psychological issues going on.
Venus enters Capricorn – 12th November
There is an emphasis on entertaining in the home and on social gatherings with friends and family. He is feeling warm-hearted and generous right now, and that bodes well for sex and love in the relationship.
A Cancer man is likely to highly passionate and amorous in the bedroom and will demand an equal response from you. Touching and physical intimacy, especially if it is spontaneous is what he’s craving, and he will be happy to make the first move.
He’s very giving emotionally and is happy to talk about his your problems and help soothe and inspire you. Renewing family bonds and relationships is a priority, so make sure you make time for, or respect, his family and their needs.
Sun enters Sagittarius – 23rd November
Now this represents a good time for being fairly organized and getting his house in order. This is a time to get your ducks in a row in your relationship. Whether you’re married or just dating, it’s a time to straighten things out, iron out any differences, and just make sure that you have any upcoming problems on the radar so they don’t take you by surprise.
It’s a good time to think about the weeks ahead, make sure everyone in the family knows what’s coming, who’s doing what, and that there’s a fair degree of delegation. In some cases, it’s a good idea to get an au pair or outsource some work to clear the calendar and get things done.
Mercury retrograde in Sagittarius – 26th November
He’s not happy when he’s put on the spot or coerced into making decisions he’s not ready for. He can be rather evasive during this period and will strongly resist being bossed around or controlled. He is looking for growth and evolvement within the relationship, and where you are too set in your ways or too staid in your approach there will be problems.
This period thus require tolerance and compromise and some new relationships can fall at this hurdle as it becomes clear that you are never going to see eye to eye on important issues. It’s vital for you both to be alert to what’s going on at a deeper level and ask yourselves if you like what you are seeing.
Themes for a Cancer Man this November 2024…
He’s in a very outgoing phase of life where he welcomes novelty; if you are happy to embrace this, then all the better for your relationship. If you are agro to his freedom loving,
adventure-seeking bent then you guys will drift apart (not necessarily permanently) this month. He’s impatient with routine and with pettiness; he wants to reject all those trivial aspects of day-to-day life and see a bigger, more promising picture.
This is such a time for a Cancer man moving forward, accepting that some problems cannot be solved, only outgrown, and the major stumbling block can be a partner who is still immersed in the very problems and trivialities he wants to leave behind.
Magic Motto – “We always win when we think big and reach for our dreams, without pandering to Mr. and Mrs. Average.”
Magic Text – “If you love someone I’m curious, share your passions with me.”
Do
The moon waxes from the 1st to the 15th making the first two weeks of the month the most favorable for all your new goals, romantic initiatives and any discussions you want to have about undertaking something different or novel.
After the 15th you have to nail things down, do a bit of extra research and make sure that you are on the right track. This is a much better period for his more speculative and ambitious ideas, it is a good time to hang out with friends, meet new people and networking is favored.
This is a good period for large-scale group activities or for having a lot to do with friends or your social circle. It’s also a time when he should be more inventive about his use of social media as it’s very important to network and use new systems of mass communication.
Joining new groups and associations for pleasure, work or political reasons is favored. This is an excellent time for real estate and property deals. Home moves and renovations are favored. This is also a great time for family events and hosting dinner parties. Business venture to do with work from home are successful.
This is an excellent time for him to apply for a new role within his current work. It’s also a good time for him to recruit staff. New diets and fitness regimes are definitely favored. Other favorable activities are getting a new pet.
Avoid
This is not the best period for brand new romantic relationships. Be cautious when dating a Cancer man as he’s quite erratic. New creative ventures and artistic projects are not favored in the waxing phase.
This is also not a good time for comprehensive activities and sporting events. Avoid making significant decisions about children or pregnancy this waxing period.
November 2024 Horoscope for a Cancer Man…
Week 1: Let him hear the words of love
This is a time when you really have to let him know how important he is to you, he needs to feel loved, cherished and appreciated. This is an awesome time for gifting and for showing your appreciation in tangible and material ways, however, it’s not just the thought that counts, sometimes it’s the effort that you put in behind it as well.
Remember, words matter to a Cancer man, he appreciates hearing specific things from you, so don’t assume that he knows you love and care for him, find a creative way of telling him.
If you’re dating a Cancer man or married, he’s big on first impressions and he does have a penchant for the WOW factor, so be charismatic and flamboyant to impress him.
He’s not always sensitive, he is definitely thinking about himself and he can be quite clumsy because he is not very receptive to understanding your needs, so that’s what you need to bear in mind this week.
This is certainly a time when he needs to watch out for toxins and be careful of his health, allergies can flare up and he needs to be mindful of staying away from triggers that he knows do him no good.
Week 2: Touchy
Sometimes he’s a little bit anal and too attached to material things, as right now he tends to be more territorial and possessive so watch out for these traits. This is definitely not a time when you want to step on his toes or invade his privacy in any way.
He’s certainly very responsive to affection, so doing things like back massages, having a hot tub together or enjoying some aphrodisiac foods can get him in the mood, because he’s fairly sexual. However, you have to be quite careful about the way you stimulate his desire, be very physical and use body language more than conversation.
Week 3: Two way trust
In romantic relationships, the amount of freedom you guys give each other in the relationship says much about how the level of trust in your union is. The more the trust is there, the more freedom you give each other, and the better things are.
However, he may be the one demanding freedom and but not be as willing to repay the favor as it were. It has to be a two-way thing, and it could be that he has not realized his level of hypocrisy in the relationship.
If he wants freedom and cannot allow you the same level of freedom, he must ask himself why he doesn’t trust you – it may be time to address some issues in his past that have damaged his ability to trust.
Week 4: Talk Talk
This is a good period for honest discussion and for looking at your problems from a pragmatic point of view. Games and manipulative behavior is common during this phase, which is why you need to be alert to this and to keep everything honest.
A Cancer man occasionally uses very indirect methods of getting his own way and that may well be the case during this retrograde.
One of the problems this week is a lack of moderation, there has been a lot of fun and high levels of energy, but also sometimes arguments and heightened levels of frustration. This is a time to just calm it all down and be logical about where you’re at. Reason and logic must prevail this week in all relationships.
Summary
It’s very important for you to use your emotional intelligence in relationships, what is going on at a subtle level is not always obvious and you shouldn’t use a sledgehammer to crack a nut.
It’s important to be non-confrontational and non-aggressive, if in doubt you should stay silent and wait for things to develop, the worst thing you can do now is to try and force situations or encourage communication if he is not ready.
Make your Cancer man OBSESSED…
Have you ever fantasized about being that irresistible woman in Netflix shows…
The one the leading man just CAN’T stop thinking about?
The sexy, affectionate protagonist would do anything for this woman…
He will go to extremes to get her attention and make her happy.
Now, let’s say the star of this show is your Cancer man…
And you are the filler character who is secretly in love with this gorgeous man…
But is unable to get his attention.
Why is that?
Because you don’t have that “wow factor” that the irresistible girl he’s in love with has.
Well, it’s time to change the narrative.
I’ve created a list of actions, or as I prefer to call them…
Challenges…
This will instantly make him chase you, love you, and OBSESS over you.
He will experience intense feelings he has never felt for anyone else.
Feelings he can’t ignore or suppress because you will connect to his heart in ways he instinctively responds to…
Precisely how you’ve always hoped he would.
You’ll reignite his passion and capture his heart in ways he never imagined possible.
So much so that within just 30 days, you may completely transform your relationship…
Emotionally, physically, and spiritually!
Go here to learn more about The 30-Day Love Challenge with your Cancer man.
I promise you’ll love it.
Sending you much love,
Your sister and relationship astrologer,
Anna Kovach
